Playing With the Waves

Playing With the Waves

Have you played that game along the beach, when you couldn’t or didn’t wish to get wet?

You follow the surf as it recedes, as far as possibly, you ride its heels.

Then you run back, giddy and frantic, wonder if you tempted too far this time.

Everyone ever plays the same, we don’t stop until the tide has caught us.

This is the same rhythm upon men that women tempt our unrelenting hunt.




Your Sex Questions Set 4: Secrets & Lies

Your Sex Questions Set 4: Secrets & Lies

Have you not begun your own sex interview yet? Let’s get you started – Here is info and instructions.

Be sure to check out the comments on this post where you will find links to other bloggers answers.

Secrets & Lies

Question 1: Has anyone you know ever cheated on their significant other (behind their back) ? If so, tell us about the most scandalous. (were you there or how did you hear about it? How did you feel about it? Their significant other ever find out?  They still together? etc.)

Question 2: What is your most scintillating sexual secret? Any naughty secret you will take to your grave? If you have no secret that you haven’t told anyone, tell us the naughtiest one that you’ve told the fewest about.

Question 3: What is the naughtiest secret you know about someone else? (friend, acquaintance, or friend of friend etc.)

Question 4: Do you keep anything about your sexual history secret from your significant other? (last or future if you are single)  This could be number of partners, past reputation, a naughty act or encounter, crazy night, cheating, etc.)

Question 5: Do you talk about your sex life with any of your friends? What would shock  or surprise them most to know about your sex life?

Question 6: Do you do any flirting or anything naughty online or on your phone that your significant other doesn’t know about?  (last significant other if you are single) – this might be porn watching, online relationship, chat rooms, texting an ex, sharing pics, phone sex, etc.)

Question 7: Is there any secret that if you found out a significant other was keeping from you, it would be a deal breaker and you would break  up with them?

Question 8: If you just happened to see a friend’s significant other kissing someone else outside a restaurant as you were driving by, what would you do? (tell  friend? Talk to the significant other & get more facts? Keep  mouth shut and stay out of it?)

Question 9: Is total honesty and openness the best policy in a relationship or are there some things that are better left  not shared? (can you name a few?)

Question 10: Have you ever been hurt by a lie or secret (or by a serial liar or narcissist?) If so, what was one or two of their worst lies or secrets.


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My answers – Next Level Really Super Harder Sex Questions

Next Level – My answers

Here is a link to these questions (without my answers) to copy and answer on your own blog: Your Sex Questions Set 10: Next Level

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Next Level

1. Can sex be great if it’s just physical, with no relationship (the other person is extremely attractive but random)?

For me, not really. There are different types of relationships and connections – it doesn’t have to be the significant other type, but there has to be a connection. That’s what frames everything, even the physical stuff. Otherwise you’re having sex with a sex doll. Now the reverse is more interesting. With a sexy enough connection, or naughty enough situation, I have found sexual interaction very hot with some that I wouldn’t have normally been attracted to.

2. Have you ever had an extra strong orgasm and lost control (way more than usually if you lose control often)? How were you different during such an orgasm?

My responses to orgasms are not as interesting or varied as those I’ve seen from women.

But once I remember I had to share a room with a girlfriend and her friend for a night. We were going to Florida for a wedding (one of my girlfriends friends was getting married), and for some reason it was significantly less expensive to fly half way, late at night, and fly the rest of the way the next morning; so, my girlfriend booked a room for her and I, and another friend of hers who was traveling with us.

The room had two beds – but it was tiny. There was no way that my girlfriend and I could have sex, or even stroke each other – the friend would have heard. So we barely touched – I put my fingers in her but it was very hard to move them around, or do anything without making a sound. My girl friend very softly stroked me, not moving her hand, just tiny little stokes with a few fingers. It seemed like she did this for a very long time, but it got me hard and inched me toward an orgasm – very, very, very slowly. I was on the edge for minutes, and she kept up with her little strokes, until finally I came like monster. I couldn’t make any noise, but I buckled and clinched. A tiny grunt got out I think.

3. Would you rather have an amazing orgasm yourself or give/watch the person you were having sex with an amazing orgasm (if it had to be one or the other)?

Give them one.

4. Have you ever been inappropriately propositioned by someone (someone who shouldn’t have been propositioning you)? Did you turn them down? Did you tell anybody? (if more that once, answer with the most scandalous or interesting.)

Tough one, I seem to be a magnet for inappropriate propositions.

The most scandalous involves a girlfriend’s mom, but that would need its own post – I can’t short-answer that one.

The next most inappropriate… damn that’s like a five way tie. I’ll mention two, that’s the best I can narrow it down.

1. A coworker asked me to fuck her after a Christmas party, two weeks before her wedding, while her husband-to-be was sleeping down the hall in their hotel room. I had hung out with, and befriended both of them, and did nothing to provoke it. Yes I turned her down, and I didn’t tell anybody.

2. A good friend of my ex-girlfriend, who was also married, propositioned me at a New Year’s eave party. We were outside and her husband and my girlfriend were inside. She felt me out and we kissed. She asked me to fuck her (more like told) and I refused. I never told anybody, but she was really cold to me after that.

5. What is something that you like to watch, read or think about when you masturbate, that would embarrass you to say?

I don’t watch any porn that I’m embarrassed about – female solo type stuff mainly. I don’t watch any professional porn, not my thing.

If certain individuals knew that I thought about them – that would be embarrassing.

I think about being watched (watched having sex, or watched masturbating or something) that’s pretty embarrassing to admit.

6. If someone wanted to seduce you, describe how they could best do so?

Invite me over for dinner and wear something cute and slightly see-through, without a bra. Play some Willie nelson, while we have some drinks on your patio. Wear some good perfume, and be genuine. Give me a task so I don’t feel weird while you cook, or at least have a counter I can sit at and watch you. Or, dinner can be simple, don’t even cook if you don’t wish.

Be in sexy mode and not business lady like your giving me an interview mode. Don’t be perfect and act like you don’t need a man, because if you don’t need anything, then you don’t need me, or to seduce me. At least show an indication that you need to get laid, if nothing else.

Sit close while we talk, and either kiss me or get close enough so I can kiss you without lunging. Do your nail scratchy thing on my back. If you want to fast track the seduction, start feeling my crotch, and consider me seduced.


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