Your Sex Questions Set 8: Divorce

Your Sex Questions Set 7: Divorce

Have you not begun your own sex interview yet? Let’s get you started – Here is info and instructions.

Be sure to check out the comments on this post where you will find links to other bloggers answers.

This set of questions is for those of you who have been through divorce.

Divorce

Question 1: Did your divorce come suddenly after something happened or was it a while (or long time) in coming? Did you or your spouse put it off for too long do you think?

Question 2: Was the marriage ever good (or great) before things went bad?

Question 3: Do you think it was a bad choice to ever marry them or were there no signs that anything could  go wrong? (we hear of some who knew they had made a mistake on their wedding day).

Question 4: Did you have sex with your ex before marriage? Sex with anyone else before marriage?

Question 5: How was sex with the ex? Was the sex good? Good and then diminished perhaps? Never great? Was sex important or not so important to you? How important was it to them?

Question 6: Have you had sex with your ex since divorce? Or, have either of you made any attempts to make it happen? Do you ever think about or miss making love with your ex?

Question 7: Have you had sex with anyone other than your ex since divorce? How was it? Better? Worse? Amazing? Grass wasn’t greener? Thoughts?

Question 8: If the sex with your ex had been amazing and your sex life had been satisfying in every way, would you have wanted to give it more time?  Would you never have divorced perhaps? Do you think your ex would feel/answer the same?

Question 9: Was it weird being sexually intimate with someone new after the divorce? If you haven’t been with anyone else yet, do you feel anxiety or hesitation about sex with someone new? Perhaps you’ve lost all interest in sex? Or, maybe you are enjoying masturbation and prefer to just stick with that?

Question 10: When you first got divorced, how exited were you about the opportunity to have sex with someone new? Was it something you were looking forward to, or perhaps even one of the motivating factors for wanting the divorce?

 


Instructions:

  1. Copy the questions above and answer them on your own blog.
  2. Return to this page and submit a comment with a link to your new post.

You can select from all the question sets on the Your Question Sets page which can always be accessed from the blog’s top menu.

 

Your Sex Questions Set 2: Trial by Fire

Your Sex Questions set 2

Have you not begun your own sex interview yet? Let’s get you started – Here is info and instructions.

Now that you have dipped your toe in the water with Your Sex Questions Set 1: FIRSTS this set of questions will throw you all the way in, hold you under and shock the fear out out of you.

Be sure to check out the comments on this post where you will find links to other bloggers answers.

Trial by Fire

Question 1: What is something you desire sexually that you will not tell your significant other? (if you’re single, what would you not tell your next partner?)

Question 2: What is something a lover often did/does that you didn’t/don’t really like, but you didn’t have the heart to tell them it didn’t do it for you as much as they thought?

Question 3: What is the most embarrassing thing that you have thought about while masturbating lately? (the last month or two)

Question 4: What do you think is the hottest thing about you, or the hottest thing that you do from the perspective of those who have sex with you? (bonus: include the 2 or 3 hottest things)

Question 5: What is something that you would do if it was more acceptable and nobody would mind or judge you for?

 


Instructions:

  1. Copy the questions above and answer them on your own blog.
  2. Return to this page and submit a comment with a link to your new post.

 


You can select from all the question sets on the Your Question Sets page which can always be accessed from the blog’s top menu.