I thought this might be fun — and it would be great if any of you women want to blog responses/corrections to my answers, or a “What I think I know about men” version.
The main thing I know about women is that they are all different, like everybody, so pardon me for any generalizing I might need to do, in order to answer these questions. Also, I’m just a guy after all, so what the hell would I really know? But — here’s some stuff I think I know.
What Do you Know about the Clitoris?
The clitoris originated inside the vagina and evolved to be outside. There still are species that have the clitoris on the inside – such animals, like rabbits, need to be stimulated (or orgasm) in order to trigger the release of an egg. Human females release eggs monthly, and do not need to be stimulated to do so. The clit begins as a penis, or a penis begins as a clit, and specifies during early fetal stages.
Clits are different sizes, and located in slightly closer or farther distances outside the vagina. I think women with a larger clit, or one closer to the vagina, tend to orgasm more frequently, and/or more easily.
What do you know about female orgasms?
The scientists say there are three types of female orgasms — clitoral, vaginal, and g-spot. Also, the magical “all in one” orgasm that some talk about.
I don’t see it as different types of orgasms. I see it as different routes to orgasm.
Let me give an example. If I concentrate long enough, I can make myself hard and ejaculate, without touching myself (and without anyone else touching my penis.) While the orgasm I have through this route is much stronger, it is not a different orgasm, just a slower, stronger orgasm — achieved through mental, and not genital stimulation.
I think the vaginal and g-spot orgasms are similar, in that they are different ways to reach orgasm, other than directly stimulating the clitoris. And, like my example, it takes longer and is more difficult for women to achieve an orgasm indirectly, through non-clitoral stimulation, but is often a stronger (as they say “full body”) orgasm.
Achieving orgasm = 30% mental, 40% anatomical, 30% technical. Technical meaning the right angle, tempo, and duration. Anatomical, her and him – is it a good fit, does he curve into your spot, location of your clit, size and fit of both genitals.
What do you know about timing?
During part of a woman’s cycle, she is attracted to sensitive, care-taking type guys, and at the other end of her cycle, she is more attracted to muscular, harry, masculine type guys – and is much more interested in having sex.
What do you know about three-ways?
Like I said in my last post, evidently they have the most of them in Australia. And who could blame them, with accents like that, who wouldn’t want to fuck just about every one of them Aussies who spoke to you?
They always have gone wrong somehow for me – several near misses, and I don’t even try anymore. But, statistically, and from women I’ve talked to, MMF is a very common fantasy. The MMF three-ways I have heard about, sound like they went well.
You also read about horror stories, and I read one statistic that the average relationship only lasts thee months after a first three-way experience.
Women seem to be open to the MMF three-way. The times I have heard about things going wrong, are when the second guy is a good friend of the boyfriend/husband. I wouldn’t do one, MMF, but I can see how it is a hot fantasy for women.
Girls want MMF three-ways.
What do you know about women and cheating?
I know that they cheat as much as men — they don’t get caught as often, and on average, don’t suffer as significant of consequences when they do get caught. Have you ever heard of a man dumping his wife, flat out, for cheating on him? Have you heard of a woman doing this to a man, and probably taking half of his money with her?
What do you know about women, contrary to what people generally think?
Women don’t usually stop wanting sex – anymore than guys. It often isn’t even about their man. Women with wealthy, handsome men, cheat too. I think their role becomes non-sexy, When they sleep with their husband, they have a certain role they have to play – same one they always have. Also, many women have adopted the role of “mom,” and it is hard or impossible to escape the mom role, and other roles, while having sex with husband – they need to go completely outside their role/family/circle, in order to see themselves as sexy, and sexual. It’s about them mainly. So, a woman may seem uninterested in sex, and may even believe themselves, that they have no interest in it; however, with a different man, in a different context, they can drop having to be the typical role, and suddenly sex is sexy again.
Women are raised to not overtly express themselves sexually, in order to appeal to men who are socialized to beware of young women who are too sexual. Also, women are more cautious, and probably more responsible. When the risk, danger and shame are removed, women are a lot like us men.